I had a school girl crush on Tom Cruise.  After watching him in "Top Gun," I thought he was the epitome of masculinity and charm.  As I got older, I heard gossip mill rumors that my beloved Tom lived a...a-hem complicated life.  I paid little attention to the mumblings as my affection for the film icon was one from afar.  However it's no surprise that Katie Holmes, only a few years older than me, would fall under his spell.  She grew up in a generation that idolized the mega movie star.

No one knows what happens behind closed doors yet if we look at the relationship of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes aka TomKat it is easy to see the core issue.  Scientology whisperings aside, Tom was a controlling husband who wanted Katie to live up to his idea of what a wife and mother should be.  

According to US Weekly reporter Jennifer Peros, "Many reports we are hearing is that Tom was very controlling.